Lessons through Failure: How to Become a Legend
Thursday, May 7th, 2009
Earlier last month we discussed the blessings of failures and how really, failures are actually opportunities! Today we discuss failures even more, and take a peak at one of the most famous men in the history of the United States, and how despite his many set backs and failures, he became a legend…
Have you ever been disappointed in your life because you failed at something? How about because you had a tough set back?
What was your reaction?
- Did you give up?
- Did you let go of your dreams?
- Did you give into the belief that happiness and success is meant for some people and not for others?
No matter what, everyone is going to face disappointment at some time in their life. Knowing that it is inevitable, the question we must ask ourselves before it happens is “what am I going to do when that disappointment occurs? What am I going to do when I have that set back?”
Let’s consider our mystery man for today: one of the most famous people in the history of the United States who had a tremendous amount of setbacks we would consider terrible!
Who is this mystery man? Let’s see if you can guess…
At age 7 his family was forced from their home and he had to help support them.
At age 9 his mother died.
At age 21 he failed in business.
At age 22 he ran for legislature and lost; lost his job; and was turned down when he applied to law school.
At age 23 he started another business on borrowed money but by age 24 went bankrupt.
At age 25 he was engaged to be married and his fiancé died.
At age 26 he had a nervous breakdown and was in bed for 6 months.
At age 28 he was defeated as speaker of the state legislature.
At age 33 he ran for congress and lost.
At age 38 he ran for congress again and lost.
At age 44 he ran for the U.S. senate and lost.
At age 46 he tried for his party’s vice president nomination and received less than 100 votes and lost.
At age 48 he ran for the U.S. senate again and lost.
At age 50 he was elected the president of the United States of America.
Who is he?
Abraham Lincoln!
He is a man we have heard about many times through history lessons, documentaries, biographies, television shows and movies.
What would have happened if when his mother died he gave up hope in life, stopped taking care of himself, and became homeless?
What if at age 21 he realized that he was a failure and really shouldn’t try to do anything ‘big?’
What if at age 48, he decided to withdraw from politics?
Really think about that for a moment. Literally. Imagine how different life would be if this one man did not exist in the history of the United States and the world.
Now think about yourself. How different might the world be 200 years from now, if you give up on your goals and dreams?
Really think about THAT for a moment. Literally. Imagine how different the lives of our descendants would be if this one man, or this one woman…YOU, did not exist…if YOU gave up, and did not pursue your life’s purpose.
Next time you have a setback, I recommend you remind yourself of Abe! Then ask yourself, “have I persisted as much as Lincoln did?” … if the answer is no, I suggest you keep moving forward!
You want to know how to become a legend? You never give up. Ever.
Credits: Thank you to Alex Mandossian who referred to Abraham Lincolns successes and failures on one of his teleseminar secrets modules — and thank you to the person who had a website with these Abraham Lincoln facts, whom which I unfortunately can’t remember the location of the site (I copied and pasted the Lincoln facts into a word document months ago and did not keep track of the link)
In todays post I have some very important lessons to share with you on living a life of non-judgment, and viewing your experiences from multiple angles, rather than just one…