I have often been asked why I don’t believe in New Years Resolutions…

After telling someone I think resolutions are bogus, I’ll witness the clocks spinning in their head as their thinking, “Huh? But Why? Why wouldn’t you want to set goals every year?”

Allow me to explain through a short, but very powerful story… (more…)

A very important lesson I learned while under John Assaraf’s wing was that…

The “what” comes before the “how.”

What does that mean?

Consider this: We all have ‘wants’ in our life: material, spiritual, relationship, and contribution (as well as others).  That is our ‘what.’

What most people do however is as soon as they think of ‘what’ they want, they immediately begin to list out all the reasons why they can’t have it! They think, “well ‘how’ in the world could I possibly achieve that?”

And when they’re asking that question, they are asking with a belief that it can’t happen, and thus attracting into their life all the reasons why they can’t achieve that dream.

That’s all they see: the reasons why not!

If you’ve had a dream in the past 10 years in which you (more…)